There are songs that remind me of my exciting, mostly carefree days in high school and undergad with my friends.
It’s easy to become overwhelmed by your personal struggles, whatever they may be. Well, I’ll say that it’s easy for me to become overwhelmed by whatever is or is not happening in my life at any particular moment.
I’m one of those people who actively evaluates their life and their worldview. I do this all the time, sometimes to a point of annoyance. I’ve accepted that it’s a part of my quirky personality, but still I strive for balance.
I don’t just evaluate my life and my worldview; I address my issues and my concerns openly and honestly.
Don’t get me wrong, I am not suggesting that every issue I have I broadcast it for an audience in order to address it; however, I’m saying that I’m open with myself about my issues and sometimes this means admitting that I’m not ready to address it, yet.
I don’t pretend that the issue is fails to exist; however, I acknowledge that I lack the necessary tools and resources I need to properly address the issue at that time.
Some of my friends prescribe to the notion that someone is worst off than they are, therefore they should refuse to complain another their predicament. Umm…that doesn’t work well for me!
I’m cognizant of the fact that many of my “issues” are rudimentary compared to someone else’s, but what gives?
Seriously, who is the last person who has the absolute worst lot in life and can not find anyone in worst shape?
Plus, what’s wrong with admitting that my problems/issues are a big deal to me? Regardless of how petty they may appear on the grand scale of problems faced by people!
I work hard not to allow my problems to encapsulate me and deplete me of the very resources I need to address them properly. Yet, I refuse to deny the impact that my problems/issues have on my life simply because they are not what books are made of!
My parents made me attend a Protestant Christian church while rearing me in their home. This was one of the value system that my parents felt was important to instill into me so myself and my siblings had to attend church until we finished high school. Once we finished high school we could move out of my parent’s home and decide whether we wanted to continue attending church.
I bring this up, not just to paint a picture about who I am but also to explain another point…
as mentioned I think the belief that one should not complain about their lot in life because someone else’s is worst, is flawed.
I recall as a child, using this same type of logic I thought I needed to have some “major life crises” in order to truly be “redeemed”…the argument never quite made sense but my young mind assumed that in order to truly shine I had to “go through” some heavy stuff!
It was obvious to me that a testimony about making good grades on my report card paled in comparison to a testimony about overcoming drug addiction! You see this is why it’s flawed logic to compare your plight to anyone else’s
We all have our personal crises that impact our very being. Sometimes these crises overwhelm us and yes sometimes I know that I personally can be very dramatic when dealing with a crises…however, even with that it’s important that we don’t undermine the impact of our personal crises. It’s also important that we don’t depreciate our crises by comparing them to other’s crises.
Everyone’s journey is unique.
As if I have something profound to say…
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The first phenomenal woman shall be known as Charisma. I’ve known Charisma my entire life and since I can remember she has been an inspirational phenomenal woman. For a fact, this woman was one of the two women I aspired to be like when I grew up.
If you only view this woman on paper, you wouldn’t be impressed…especially if it was written in the traditional sense. Charisma is not an inspiration because of some job, career path, she is an inspiration because of her character.
Originally I planned to describe her and her attributes. But like I, she is more than her attributes.
One day I’ll tell you more
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