Before I start, I’ll say that I haven’t had many romantic relationships as far as quantity goes; but, I’ve had a few quality romantic relationships in my adult life.
It’s also important to point out that I was focused on my educational aspirations and therefore I made little time for romantic relationships.
Somehow I managed to have a few quality relationships
Now that school is over and I can think about romance in a different light, I can say that I’m happy that I did not focus heavily on this aspect of life much.
I’ve read a few articles and books in the popular and indie presses about relationships and those are very confusing.
I personally feel that many of those sources are out of touch with the reality of romantic relationships.
I know you’re likely wondering what does she know if she was so caught up in school? I have had romantic relationships, been in love, and endured relationship loss.
My current relationship status is unimportant.
Romantic relationships are not easily explained so be careful when reading the massive love advice in books, blogs, and from “gurus”.
We all enter our relationships with baggage – I’m including our personal beliefs, world views as baggage – therefore our situations may not fit the advice in the love columns.